Laws of Attraction and Your Energy
We've all heard about "Laws of Attraction". In essence, what we focus on is drawn to us, what we say, and what we give our mental energies too. I'm certainly not an empath, but I do find myself highly insightful of other people. However, I realized that perhaps I wasn't so insightful when it came to what I was spending my mental coins on.
I had this minor epiphany the other day when I realized everything I had said or thought about before 10 am was negative. I was irritated about a friend who couldn't or wouldn't take my advice on her love life but kept returning to me for advice. I had a dream the night before about my ex and woke up with that on my mind. I was pissed at the dog for chewing my son's shoes up, etc. etc. and on and on...then I realized that I was being a black hole of negativity.
I usually pride myself on working hard to think positive, to work toward goals, to be strong when things are hard. I do vision boards, I meditate, I pray, and I do daily affirmations about all the things in my life I'm so thankful for. The realization that I was being a "negative Nancy" took me aback because I knew being negative has greater implications on my personal "Laws of Attraction".
On my surface, I was always being positive. On my surface, I kept smiling and saying thank you. On my surface, I pushed back negative and refused it. However, my mental energies, or "coins" were being spent on things that were NEGATIVE.
I realized I had several people in my life that seemed to always put me in a bad mood after dealing with them. They came in the form of smiles, but they always seemed to need something or to emotionally dump on me. I realized that people who drained me had to go! Honestly, it wasn't a hard task. Then, I started to look at the situations that brought me negativity. I made as much peace as I could with these issues, literally in a day or two and put the mental baggage down.
I focused on the big issues I was facing in life. Still going through a divorce, I knew that I was harboring and breading negative thoughts constantly about this never-ending battle. I slowly went over why I was so upset, why I still harbored hurt. Then I prayed for my ex. I prayed for his mistress, I prayed for every person right then and there that I thought had wounded me or brought me pain that I was holding on to anywhere in my body or mind. I couldn't allow people that wished me no good in life to affect my future in life so I focused all my energy on wishing them well and let go of grudges.
I dug past my surface positivity to weed and root out anything that only I knew bothered me and weighed me down. I cut people off. I stopped over committing myself to people who weren't willing to ride with ME down to the wire. I prioritized my time for just me and my kids. Everything else being secondary. I threw away triggers of hurt, like old pictures or once sentimental items that every once and a while reminded of something bad. Most importantly, I began to meditate on a deeper level. I pulled my positive energies deeper into my being. I keep working to expel anything or anyone who brings bad vibes. "Laws of Attraction" are so real and I respect them like I do gravity.
I am now guarding my thoughts and my energies. I work to be deeply positive. I'm surrounding myself with love and things that build me and make me better. Draw good into your life. Leave everything else behind or in the past.
There is no better time to get deeply positive than at New Years. New Year, new me....(negative shit) Who dis?
Blessing and light,